As far as biographies go they're not the most uplifting and don't make for very pleasant reading, unfortunately. At least I wouldn't think so unless you enjoy reading about women who have nothing to worry about worrying about something and irritating the men that love them by doing so. I wouldn't pick up that book anyways. I certainly don't like being in it!

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Originally Posted by lido78 I promise to keep it to myself until I have space to work through them and get my logical self to slap around my insecure self....However, I don't always have the self-control and then, we're off and running...usually culminating in a crazy fight over perception

That about sums it up.

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Originally Posted by lido78 He does not understand at all the way my mind works

That is certainly the case for us! He does think I’m crazy, does get defensive, and he’s completely befuddled as to why I think the way I do. He knows he’s done nothing wrong and gets angry. So messy.

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Originally Posted by lido78 I try to give myself 24 hours before bringing up a particular issue with him...it's gotten so this works about 90% of the time.

I would really like to do that, but ironically in my case he’s become hyper-aware to my being hyper-aware and is on edge before he has to tell me something at times, so unless I am really good at hiding my feelings, which I am not, it’s very difficult to minimize this problem. I have to find a way of just not having these feelings at all.