I had a similar one thing after another developing into a ED @ 8, SI by 11 and anger, so much anger. I did a similar time line thing because T just "didn't get it" and I got mad. After that 12 pg story she was a lot more understanding My extended family didn't know until last November that anything was wrong. I was the kid my parents held up as "be like her" to my siblings. My parents cried when that picture was shattered. But yes I do understand.