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Originally Posted by hankster
Aren't you kind of objectifying this person? Putting the cart before the horse? I mean, you do things together with a person to get to know them, or to share the experience with them, but do you even know this person? If I were you, I would look to make friends closer to home. Maybe try to fix my relationship with my father. Im 61 and not planning to die soon, and really not planning to entertain some 20 year old and their fantasy - I dont get it. We're real people ya know.
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i wasnt really "trying" to objectify him, but i cant really help how i feel about him and thinking about him. i think that he is physically attractive. he is "big" (big, sexy arms) compared to me and i think about him putting his entire body over me. i cant really help thinking this way.
he has hair on his arms like this
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/...77_468x670.jpg
i dont want him to die of course. i mean that i wanted to tell him that i wanted to do some things so much that i hope he will do it with me "sometime in his life", thats how much i wanted it.
im closer to 30, i know its still a big difference. but if a girl tells you that they think that you are physically attractive, or sexy, hot, that they want to have ex with you, do you think thats offensive? not a little flattering at all?
i hope that if i can ever tell him these things that he would be flattered