I dont know what to do with myself anymore. I haven't had sex in about 5 months and have not felt like having it any at all. In fact the thought of having sex makes me want to throw up. i have been married 8 years now and having sex has always been difficult for me. the thing is that before i got married my relationship where sex was concerned was fantastic. there was never a time when he wanted to or i wanted and i wasnt in the mood. Now i cant even stand thinking about it. I am not attracted to anyone else and i am not thinking about an outside relation but still why have i stopped wanting sex?