Then he starts talking about how he can't wait to see him “transform” me in his last four months in town. Now (two days later) I wake up to a text that says he can't wait to see me put on more weight so I'll have a sexy booty. I feel like ****. I don't understand why he would sleep with me if what he wanted was a curvy girl with long hair. I don't know if he thinks I like this because I'm submissive in bed (I know some people carry on BDSM relationships outside of the bedroom but that's not my thing) or if he thinks he's just encouraging me to not be anorexic.
I know I have to mention this to him in order for me to keep seeing him but I'm wondering if I should keep seeing him at all because this is sending up serious red flags. I feel like I'm being treated like an object. The thing is he's in my group of friends so I'm bound to run into him again so I can't just decide to ignore him. I'll have to address it at some point.
What should I do? Do you think he's just trying to be helpful/sexy or should I just cut things off and deal with some awkwardness around mutual friends? I'm in a very vulnerable position right now and I don't want to deal with any controlling or insensitive guys even if it's just a casual thing.