Hi Flutterbye,
The event that you describe isn't uncommon for after TBI's. I have that happen quite often, and often don't realize that I even made an error until someone points it out to me.
My doctors called it something vague, like "word salad" (or something like that). A rather common effect with damage in the temporal lobe. I did see a speech therapist for a couple of months who gave me some good tips on dealing with my TBI.
Thinking Strategies...
Before...
1.) Control distractions whenever possible
2.) Ask Q's to clarify
3.) Do not assume
4.) Review before starting, especially if long or complex task
During...
1.) Go step by step
2.) Stop and think
3.) Slow down
4.) Pay attention to specific details
5. ) Keep it simple
6.) Problem solve: "what else can I say (or do)?"
After...
Double-check for accuracy
Maybe some of these techniques will help you as well? I hope so. Gentle hugs to you!