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Originally Posted by Bodiesneverfound
I'm wondering if I should keep seeing him at all because this is sending up serious red flags. I feel like I'm being treated like an object. The thing is he's in my group of friends so I'm bound to run into him again so I can't just decide to ignore him. I'll have to address it at some point.
What should I do? Do you think he's just trying to be helpful/sexy or should I just cut things off and deal with some awkwardness around mutual friends? I'm in a very vulnerable position right now and I don't want to deal with any controlling or insensitive guys even if it's just a casual thing.
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Hey, listen to yourself is my advice.
And then wonder why so quickly you've let someone else who is controlling into your life. Perhaps some therapy may be of help? You've such self-awareness with your comment about not wanting someone controlling you again and that you're feeling vulnerable, so I really would listen to yourself and stop this relationship as it's making you feel bad.
Don't worry about the group of friends, feeling awkward for a few months is really a small price to pay if ending things will make you feel better. And as with everything, gossip, awkward feelings, they all tend to blow over fairly quickly.
Hugs.