Here's an update: he just texted me this morning and asked if I had anything but punk clothes (that's what I generally wear) and said he would like me to wear a sundress to dinner instead because that's what he prefers. I told him that there may have been a miscommunication and that I am only submissive in bed but don't like to be told how much I should weigh, how I should do my hair, or what I should wear. He just texted me back and said "it wasn't a demand, just a question." So yeah... I'm not going to be seeing him again. I did not sign up for this and no man tells me what to wear.