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Old Jun 27, 2013, 09:36 AM
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On the bright side, at least she WANTS something to do with your kiddo. How old is she? She may either be: A) Just really, REALLY love kids. B) Not sure how to handle this because she's never been in this situ before. or C) Figuring that her and your ex are going to be together for a long time and she wants to connect with your child.

If I were in that situation, I would talk to her and say, "Look, as much as you like doing all of this, you aren't married to my ex. God willing, one day you will be. At that point, we can work out who will take which mommy duty, but right now, you are being a little creepy. At this point, you are not allowed at his school any longer, and you have no legal right to our son. At the point you are married to my ex are a permanent fixture in his life, we will revisit the issue."

How does you son feel about all of this? Have you talked to him?

She sounds well meaning, for the most part, but seems to lack social skills or experience around kids or dating guys with kids.