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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
The guy whom I am currently seeing, when he learned about my past ED (and I was not underweight when he learned about my past ED) said the following:
- You look just great right now, but since you had the ED in the past, I just want to mention that I noticed that you had no food in the fridge. I think with this kind of past it is a little alarming that you have no food in the fridge and hope that you will take better care of yourself to make sure that you always, always have food in the fridge.
What prompted that was his visit during which he brought take out food and then we were putting leftover takeout into the fridge and he must have noticed.
In reality it was due to my lack of housekeeping skills and a good schedule of chores (I run out of clean clothes for the same reason) and NOT an ED symptom.
But it was still nice to hear him talk this way.
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I think it's sweet that he would show concern in that way. I wouldn't mind if someone did that for me. The way this guy did it though just made me feel terrible, then he kept adding other things for me to change which had nothing to do with my well being.