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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl
Good on you! Am glad you decided for sure to stop seeing him. And keep with the punk clothes - I love em, wore em for years - I dumped one for moaning about them, and I dumped another, quite lovely fella who told me not to put on any weight. It's out of order to comment on your appearance like this, esp so soon. There will be someone out there who likes you just as you are, wouldn't want to change a thing about you and understands boundaries.
Hugs.
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I love my punk clothes and I can't see me wearing anything else (except at work but that's different)! Besides I could never date someone who was so shallow that they cared that much about what I wore. It'd be one thing if I asked him if he thought I'd look good in other clothes and he encouraged me or if we were going somewhere that punk clothes were not appropriate but that wasn't the case. I also can't change my body type period. I'm small even when I'm healthy and I'm not about to run out and get a boob job or anything.