No, each one of use, has to take personal responsibility for our behaviors.

Are others doing you wrong, then saying, something to the effect, Don't blame me, blame the disorder?

There's a line to be drawn. For instance, saying, wow, I am really sorry I said something like that, wasn't feeling myself, I will try to not do that again, etc etc. And not doing that, it's one thing. We have bad days, we are human. It's when it's over and over again, the damage is done.

If this/these people are wreaking havoc with your own struggles, reexamining how necessary in your life they are, isn't a bad idea.