So, I'm new to this forum, but after reading some of the threads I've been thinking about something. You see, I've been looking online for a therapist and I'm a girl and I'd prefer a male T. And some of the pictures that the male T's have posted are pretty good looking and they're handsome people. So this got me wondering if it's possible to just be attracted- even madly attracted-to a therpist simply because he or she is handsome or pretty without it being dubbed "erotic transference?" i mean, you don't have to be attracted to a therapist only because they're non-judgemental, and caring, and the perfect listener, and because of the intense intimacy, right? What if you just like them? And if you told your T that you are attracted to them just cuz you are, are they likely to believe you?? All responses are welcome, and BTW I have no intentions of choosing a T based off looks. I think that might be catastrophic for me

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