Can't say that I ever asked this specific question, but we did talk about how we would each feel if the other died. Maybe related.

But honestly, I find her answer to you to be lame. I could easily accept not answering, or even saying that she'd like to think about it and talk next week, or doing as CE's Madame T would. But her answer tells me that she doesn't have a firm theoretical foundation from which to answer you. That would bother me.