If you belive in God, pary to him that he milds the pain. That works for me after a while. I never have been that sad, but I do (somewhat) know about hamsters dying. I know it's not even close but, it is not easy when it is someone close to your heart. You break, and then start all over. I don't know if you get daily flashbacks, but I do. My friend wasn't that awesome, but I learned how to "push" away the pain as much as I can.