You're an attractive gal with a huge heart for victims of abuse and for animals, and well thought of by your peers here on PsychCentral--e.g., notz, who's absolutely tops in my book & heart.
I'm so sorry this rotting poop showed up disguised as a neighbor and interrupted your life. Barf the experience if you can, gargle with something refreshing, and move on down the road!
Roadie