Hi Big Mama

I’ve chatted to you online.


Everybody is missing the point!!


Fixing things in the now won’t fix your sexual problems. Read a great book I’m reading for survivors of sexual abuse: The Invisible Wound by Wayne Kritsberg. He is a psychologist and I agree with what he says. Your sex life won’t improve until you resolve the past traumas from your childhood ie when you were raped. You have to work through the anger, the terror, the emotional pain attached to those traumas in childhood, if you want to be functional and ‘turned on’ for sex with your H. So trying pot, bondage or other sexual activities won’t fix your problems. Pot may give you temporary results but long-term, no. Dealing with the sexual trauma from childhood (and adulthood) will lead to better sex as an adult. That’s my 2 cents.