Yeah, me too - sounds like the same type of man I dated a few years back. And yep, it gets worse. My advice is to get away - he will not change, you loving him will not change him. It will just get harder to get away the longer it goes on because he will eat away at your self-esteem. He's manipulative and abusive and the sweet side, no matter how lovely it seems, isn't worth it.

Please find someone who treats you well, like you deserve.

Hugs