I'm sorry, but all I could think while reading that was "get away from him!" He sounds abusive and controlling, and he has already started to ruin your self esteem. I have no experience of these kinds of relationships myself, but I've read about them a lot. It sounds like the first stages of an abusive relationship, potentially a physically abusive relationship in the future. I know that he started out all sweet and great, but, I think they all start out that way, before they show their dark side. The sweet side, I think, is what traps women in these relationships - those moments of having a good, kind guy could come back any second, so it's worth sticking around, right? Please don't. He's already treating you like crap and it could get a lot worse. Find a guy who is good and sweet ALL the time, not some of it.
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