It really doesn't matter to me what HE wants because the demands and things he blames you for are control of you. This is an unhealthy and bad relationship and frankly you SHOULD cut your losses and move on.

From your perspective, that isn't an easy thing to do because you have invested time, emotions, and energy into this person and relationship. You are probably remembering the good times you spent with him and clinging to this idea that you had of him, how he was, and that is what's making it difficult for you to stay?

If necessary, bring yourself to the here and now and look at how he has been the past week. Once that is in perspective, go back two weeks, then three, then a month. How do you feel in the present, week old, two weeks old, etc. relationship? Has it caused you more harm or good? You will then have more information to help you make a hard decision.