Don't feel bad about it, Otter63. I have a real tough time with commitments, so I try to avoid these. I do a couple of things at church, but other than that, I generally avoid volunteering. I work as a teacher, so I feel I contradict myself. I am always asking for volunteers; however, I never volunteer for events at my own children's schools. I find that as I get older, getting out there in the world gets tougher. I even find that making dates with friends is very difficult for me.
Bluemountains