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Old Jun 28, 2013, 12:50 PM
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Thank you faerie for your reply.
While my dad was very involved in many community activities from chamber of commerce to PTA etc., I don't remember my parents ever encouraging us to do the same, and my mom never really liked my dad doing those things.

My dad taught me to have good boundaries, which I do think is good. I don't think it's good to not be able to say no.