Hello there, I live in MN and i fell in love with a wonderfull man, who had moved here from NY. He compleated me, made me laugh and feel overall happy with myself. He enjoyed doing all my favorite activity with me, like fishing and playing video games.We have been living together for a year, and we both loved it! But... (there always seems to be a "but...") He lost his job back in January when the company lost a big contract. He has been actively searching for a job, however most places here have a requirement of a drivers license, and due to his epilepsy he can not get one. So his search has come up with nothing. and his unemployment just ran out..
Well a few nights ago on the 25th he snapped under the stress and came to the decision to move back to NY and live with his family, and break up. It broke me and i cried for 2 days, and he did aswell.
I have decided to support him and help him with what he needs help with. I am happy that he is excited to be going back. All i want is for him to be happy. But all it does is hurt me. I told him that i dont want him to go, but i stopped telling him how i feel because i still want to be his friend after he leaves.
Im not really sure what i should do... I have decided to move back in with my family aswell because with out him i cant afford the apartment. and i dont think i can stand to come back to the apartment empty, knowing that he was once here.