Like Christina, I am curious about your age. I am also curious in general... because you post very amusing accounts without seeming to recognize them for how amusing they are... and that gives an impression of a girl who is 3-5 years old (kids do not realize that they are funny)... but you mention sex sex sex all the time... which makes me thing that you are at least 15... lots of open questions.

But also I want to make a practical suggestion.

You know how in business people use "canned email" to speed up certain recurrent interactions. Well maybe you do not know that it well due to young age. The idea is that when you find yourself in the same scenario with different people, it sometimes helps to have a "canned", prepared, redrafted response (which you may or may not need to personalize) to send to everybody as the situation repeats itself. This way, you do not have to reinvent the wheel.

So I see that you are running into the same situation again. And that calls for a "canned email".

Or, even better, a profile statement.

So I do not know how this chat site you are on is organized - I am not even clear whether the site is mostly for sex or mostly not for sex because you equivocated - but to the extent that there is some kind of a profile on that site, ***PLEASE!!!*** include the above quote in the profile. Put everybody on notice, ahead of time!

If that is not practically feasible, in that there is no profile and you are bound to have piecemeal messaging with each individual guy, make a canned email with the quotation above and send it FIRST THING you do when contacted by a random new guy. FIRST THING!

I am not familiar enough with text messaging and, unfortunately, do not know if "canned text messages" are possible, though. But in email, they are. Here is more for you:

Email Faster & Better With Canned Responses

I swear it would help!