I finally decided that I either wanted to 'make out' with my T through out our sessions (which she would not do of course) or I wanted her to stop hugging me. Since she started hugging me I have obsessing about her between sessions wondering what she 'thinks' about me. The hugs derailed me and I was no longer to keep my transference at bay. So, I am really interested in your opinions as to weather the type of hugs that I described are inherently wrong, poor judgement, etc. It caused an awful outcome for me; my T angrily fired me and I am confused and in a horrible depression