This is a good topic and a huge concern for me, especially when it comes to employment. I often wonder where we introverts fit in Western society.

Introversion is different from shyness, because it is innate. Shyness is learned.

Meeting people and talking is difficult so I remain quiet. Usually, I have no idea what to say or how to make people feel at ease. Perhaps, this is a combination of shyness and the quiet manifestation of Aspergers. Generally, I am quiet in social settings, unless people are discussing topics I feel passionate about.

I like my introverted personality. My strengths compensate for my apparent flaw.

There is definitely a cultural influence. I grew up on a remote FIrst Nations community where people are known to be reticent. My Native father is a man of few words. I possess some of that quality.

Why do I feel pressured to be an extrovert? Society. During my adolescence, I tried to conform, but it cost me my mental health. Now, I refuse to, because I can't stand acting nor am I good at it.

It would be a lot easier for us if society appreciated us a bit more. We have talents and a lot to contribute.

Didgee, a proud INTJ.