just leave that ingrown hair. They hurt like hell, but will go away on there own. Don't worry abut a scar from it. It will most likely not leave a scar but if it does it will not be an issue to your mate. Ingrown hair scars is not what they will be looking at while visiting down there. You can pluck it but I am not sure if it is recommended or not. You can cover up the temporary scar w/ foundation, the water proof kind of foundation.