I would never report her. To be fair to her, if she asked me if I would be comfortable hugging her I would have said yes. By the time the hugs began I already thought that I loved her. But, once the hugs started I became almost obsessed with her. I did elude to my transference for years, usually in the form of flirtation. She didn't get it, but she was always very kind and understanding and now beyond recommending an alternative T she won't talk to me. I think she made some mistakes, but she is a good woman and I feel bad that I angered her. Thanks for your comment.