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Old Jun 29, 2013, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl View Post
She did explain why, it's in the OP.
But.. he does have a choice. If he wanted to go to the gym, he could've. I do not like it when people who do not want to do something, then later complain about it when they clearly had a choice.
But... you've made me think. Yes, the OP does mention a few things that she has her input in. That's fine if its wanted, but perhaps it just isn't wanted and it's something they need to discuss and sort out. He should tho, just get up and do things his way and quit blaming.
He says he feels respected when she's not around. I think she's having too much input. If the genders were switched, we would be screaming at a guy who doesnt want his gf to go to the gym, who "suggests" she exercise at home, who tries to tell her how to feel sexy, who tells her to do the same occupations as his mother. So the question is, why is she trying to control things?
Thanks for this!
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