I'm sorry you are feeling conflicted with this...thanks for sharing...I can see that you have a good heart and are a true friend. I have also had issues with friendships...I can honestly say I am a good friend....but have learned that is not enough to some people...it hurts to feel like they didn't care enough to give you at least the respect you deserve...if they are going thru some things that prevent them from giving what you deserve than that's on them not you anymore. We can only do so much to show people we love them and care enough to try to fix things...but if they cant even be honest with you about this then how will they ever be honest with themselves..i see you are trying to stay positive and want to make this friendship work but from an outsider looking in...you don't deserve to keep torturing yourself over someone who wont even respect the fact that she is the one not doing what she should to fix the friendship...you cant expect someone to just forget and try to come back in their life if you never want to honest about what lead you to end the friend ship to begin with....is she hasn't been honest with you yet I wouldn't hold my breath waiting or even letting this get me down any further...I know its hard when you care so much about people but sometimes we need to see it for what it is and either keep yourself hoping for people to change or let go and simply just take this as lesson...and not allow people to take your beautiful heart for granted...their loss ...I also agree for you to be careful...