Why are you behaving like his mother? That's a really good question for you to ponder. You're telling him this that and the other, your dad's done this, so he should do that too..... you might want to consider if you want a partner or someone you're going to be responsible FOR.

I say this because if you are responsible FOR him, then he would believe his mood depends on you and what you are doing. I'd avoid that like the plague, hun.