huge hugs to you. i'm sorry that there are people like this in the world. on behalf of humanity i think apologies are in order...

i can relate, though. the people who raised me to be what i am, they all want to blame each other but seriously, it's kind of funny. sometimes i'll tell them about something they did, but act like it's one of my friends, and they'll act so sorry for the "friend" and talk about what bad parents they must have.

i don't talk to them about anything anymore.