Mandazzle, I'm surprised that your T didn't recommend someone to you? did you try to see if the 2 suggested Ts are on Pyschology today find a therapist site?

Maybe you could go on a few trauma therapists sites even if they are not in your location to see how they work with trauma and then you would have questions to ask.... I would probably make appointments with both the people recommended to see if you like either of those....