I haven't really told anyone but my 25 year old son about my BPD. but my oldest sister, who was my legal guardian for two years, knows thaeres something wrong. But she refuses to admit that she and her husband had any part the hell went thru. They kept insisting that the only I have problems is because I was married to my first husband---which was years ago. But the funny thing, they blackmailed me into it because they didn't want me living with them anymore and didn't want people getting mad at them for asking me to leave. They always tell me, "You were fine until you married ________!" And I always remind of them what really happened, and my sister--who's 58!--actually throws a tantrum and goes on about how i owe her and that she "rescued" me and all that BS.