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Old Jun 29, 2013, 06:58 PM
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Hi everyone. I just started my summer job a few weeks ago. I work with 5 girls behind a big desk all day. My first day of work, I noticed these girls seemed close and friendly, considering they have been working with one another for a while. They all greeted me politely and introduced themselves, instead of one girl. She is two years older than me and we have never met before or have even heard of each other. She barely introduced or herself or said "Hi", even though I was trying to make an effort to become friendly. I was asking her simple questions to get to know her and she would answer with one word and not ask me anything about myself. It was not busy so I know she was not stressed. She was also being friendly and nice towards our coworkers and the customers. I know she is not shy around me because once in a while, she becomes snappy towards me if I make mistakes which are completely normal for a new employee. She has been acting like this since the day she met me. I do not think she is threatened by me because I am only working here for the summer. She works here full-time. I am a college student. She already graduated college two years ago.

I am guessing that maybe she dislikes me because I am considered to be attractive and thin and she is average, looks wise. The other girls who work here are also average or below average in the looks department. But maybe those other girls are not the jealous type.

I cannot think of any legitimate reason of why she dislikes me. I now feel awkward asking her work related questions. What can I do to fix this? Thanks.
seriously? after reading your post, i can't see why you dont understand why this woman dislikes you; women can tell when another woman "knows" (or thinks) she is more attractive than the other women around them. I am not very attractive, but I have no problem with having female friends that are: what I DO have a problem with is women who have that "Dont hate me because I'm beautiful" mentality; and I can usually smell someone like that a mile away.
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