What is it about women that SOME of them like the dangerous side of men? Ive thought about this a lot so its only my thoughts as a guy. First, I know how you feel. Ive been accused of being too nice before and what kinda hurt about being told that was that some part of me knew that the me I was projecting at times came across as fake and insincere. SOME people think there is a thing as being 'too nice'.

I think SOME women want to have the feeling of security in feeling protected. They might have the feeling a 'too nice' guy might not be able to protect them? Im not sure but I think its a mistake to assume kindness is weakness.