[QUOTE=monalisasmile;3142851]She did tell me I had a choice to be happy or sad and at the moment I was choosing to be unhappy. I should explain that my t practises a lot of glasser and cbt, she is all for choice therapy and when I say I am depressed she will correct me and say, no you are depressing.l wasn't very good at it because I was crying so hard and couldnt even talk. This was the first time I couldn't even look at her for the whole session. We didn't make eye contact once.
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Originally Posted by 1stepatatime
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I'm sorry that you had a tough session...she didn't answer her phone did she? ( although even if she didn't it is a huge distraction) what about the client arriving early? That shouldn't have shortened your session I would hope!  [/q
No she didnt answer her phone but she got a text and answered that. She how I was feeling terrible and her phone went off, she asked if it was ok to answer, I was just explaining to her how awful I felt and she wasnt listening because she was texting and I had to explain it all again. She didnt cut my session short but she was distracted the whole way through. It hurt because i really needed her to be there yesterday. |
Whoa....she was texting during your session? There is no excuse for that...and for her to ask you if it is okay for her to answer the phone...how insensitive!! I would be very candid with her and let her know how those distractions impacted you...you needed your T to be attentive to you...and it seems like she made the situation worse. I hope that she realizes how inappropriate it was. Thinking of you!!