I started to write the whole thing out but its just up to me to "get over it"... but really the comment was just another example of how he doesn't see us (this family) as a team... its him and then there is the rest of us (me and the kids) and as long as he is good... then his responsibilities are over... I am truly alone to figure all of the stressful life stuff (how to finance tuition payments, refinance the house, retirements, etc) by myself.

I've managed to push all of my friends away so I have no one to "complain to" or to bounce stuff off of to see if its me just being overly sensitive so I will just have to go with its me being overly sensitive.