My mom just blows it off when i tell her. Says ---No, no.. everyone's like that, it's normal.-- and im like 'uh, you're not in my head ' but she just gets frustrated with me and then i decide i f'n hate her and its all bad. sooooo we dont talk about it. She asks how i am, i say 'I'm fine' and she says, 'mind if i come visit?' and i say 'no, im in that 'normal' sort of mood where i want to put holes in my wall because the kitchen is messy and i am contemplating smashing all my dishes instead of washing them because my husband mentioned i haven't been keeping up on the housework lately... GRRRR --- i dont know whats worse, people immediately becoming defensive about it when you tell them, or people not believing.