Hi, I allowed myelf to become more vunrable today and continue the talk with t about my feelings re our relationship.

I told her that she knows how I feel about her, what more is there to say? She asked me how I felt talking about my feelings toward her, and I replied, "stupid and childlike".

She then said that she didn't feel I was being stupid. But I said, "well in my mind I feel stupid and I feel your laughing at me".

She then said that I need to check these fantasy's with reality by asking her if she was laughing at me, or asking her how she felt about me telling her how I feel.

I really feel at a loss a lot of the time as too what is ok to be asking. I mean is it normal to ask her a question such as "how do you feel about me?" or is that a no, no? see I really am not sure about how this is supposed to go.

I feel like me asking her questions is like digging for compliments

Has anyone here got passed this stage? and if so what type of questions or dialogues did you have?