As far as BDSM goes, I've come a very long way in starting to understand the dynamics behind the fetish, and overall, I'd say I mostly "get it" in terms of its appeal. It's not something I think I could do, or more aptly, not something I could be the dom in, I guess speaking honestly. I personally don't think I could bring myself to be in that position and still maintain any sort of pleasure (I'd be too afraid of hurting her ). On the flip side, I'm pretty indifferent to the reversal of the roles, as I'm not in any position to hurt her and I trust her not to permanently maim me or anything like that (rofl otherwise we wouldn't be in that scenario). It's something I've put little consideration to as a personal experience, so I've yet to really develop much of a train of thought aside from that.