There is this girl that has problems at my school, has a disability. She hates the fact she has a disability so she goes around labeling others with all kinds of disorders. Very rude in my opinion. She wound up with no friends. She talks to me only when she is alone and had no one else to talk to that she likes better, so in other words, I'm basically her back up friend, hate that. She is constantly asking for money and when she is by herself, she gets very needy and she will get mad if I decide to not keep her company and she will even try looking for me around campus, once she got into the residence hall I live in and searched every floor for me. If I'm sitting in the College Center Square, a big gathering area in the main academic building at my college, she will come and talk to me but if someone else comes around, I don't exist. I no longer tolerate that so I've been avoiding her a lot lately during the year, except the summer when we have no school. I think her problem is that she can't accept the fact that she has a disability and feels the need to put others down and use others. She sees things she wishes she had in others which may be the root problem. When she is around me, all she does is complain about her boyfriend or the people she lives with at her apartment. She also skips class and leaves class early or arrives late a lot and when she gets bad grades and even failed a couple classes, she blamed others for that. So yeah, sorry, I know this is long. But yeah, she is one of the few fake people I deal with who uses others and treats some people like me poorly and even act like I'm her back up friend. I understand she has a disability, but I still feel like she shouldn't be acting that way and I've been told by numerous people that they can also see that she only thinks of me as a back up friend and someone she can use.
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