It sounds like your new T is preventing you from experiencing all of your emotions about termination, which is a huge opportunity to heal from whatever transference was involved/connected with your old T. If your T is angry, then your possible anger surrounding termination might be difficult to express or might not surface, because now it seems that your Ts anger is impeding your ability to process what is happening with you. My T validated my emotions and supported me and I expressed a ton of anger both toward xT and myself, which wouldnt have.happened if he.had been angry for me, if that makes sense? I hope you find another T. You need your therapy to be about you.
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