(((thunderbear))),

The only one that can remove you from this situation is "you". But you need to finally realize that you really "are" worth it.

Your son is going to learn that this is "acceptable" behavior too. If someone is "constantly demanding this way" they get all the attention and service and the woman is supposed to just keep "giving and waiting on this person".

Yes, you have a large "child" in the house and you are only "the mother" in this picture.
You deserve to have an adult in your relationship too. Where on earth did you learn to
"stay and accept this kind of abuse"?

OE