I have discussed it with T, and we have discussed it in marriage counseling as well. We have been trying to address the issues. In 18 years, my son and I have had these two physical incidents. My son and I discussed the other one afterwards, and his intent was not to push me down the first time (into a chair, not like onto the ground or anything), and then he panicked and wanted me to stay there and talk to him and not go away. My son thinks our relationship is really good overall. I dunno. My son still sometimes uses his size and physical strength in a way I wish he didn't, and we discuss it a lot.