Yes, she crossed the line and I'm sure she did not mean to. I know in my heart that she meant well. Yes, I'm going to a male T tomorrow, I can't let my stubbornness do me in. That is one of the reasons I am so upset about what happened. I am worried about how the incident affects her. I still can't be mad at her, because for 10 years she was very kind and helpful. She's a smart woman, but very naive I think. When I revealed to her how I felt about her and the hugs I think she went into panic mode; worrying about her professional reputation and feeling humiliated and maybe even betrayed by me.