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Call your friend and ask her what's up instead of waiting for her to call you?

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That would be the appropriate adult thing to do. My pride tells me "she knows your situation. She never forgets to at least say 'Hi. We're having City Chicken for dinner. My mom, the boys and the neighbors are coming over'" but never invites.

No, the last time I saw her, she said, I'll call you next week and let you know when my next day off is (a month ago). The last time she couldn't call, her youngest son called me and let me know why. He calls me Mom #2 and treats me as such. If something was wrong, he would have already let me know.