Ouch!
OK STOP I AM GETTING CONFUSED......
1. I have ADD...really really really BAD
2. I have a ok organized home
3. It was very messy and disorganized and cluttered
4. now it is not messy and disorganized and cluttered
5. You are not lazy...you are just lazy and not thinking about solutions
6. You need to be PATIENT, CONSISTENT, NEVER GIVE UP....NEVER...NEVER...GIVE UP...OK? GOT THAT? NEVER GIVE UP.
7. Go to your very messy kitchen and clean ONE counter next to your sink, do the dishes and put them away, remove the trash and wipe the counter. Now you have 1 counter and the sink clean and dishes put away. GO AWAY...STEP AWAY
8. clean another counter...do those dishes, put them away...now you have 2 counters clean.
9. chose another counter or stove top.
10. keep doing 1 counter every night till all counters are clean and dishes are clean
11. wash all dishes on the floor, put dishes away, all dishes
12 clean the floor
13. if you have too many dishes, put them in a box on your front door with a "FOR FREE" sign, post on free cycle ad and let people come to you and take it all away. it is not worth the $20 you will make for a day of HELL having a yard sale.
14. have a freebie party, invite people to your house to take away anything and everything you don't want strangers to have, blah, blah, blah... GET RID OF THE ****....
15. clean your kitchen, do your dishes and pick 3 boxes and find a place for them, throw them away or put them in your FOR FREE box.
16. If you do this every night for 3 months, you will have a good habit. You can take all the ADD pills in the world and you will do nothing if you are not willing to change your behavior. Throw away what you can't give away, give away what you horde, hording is BAD...HORDING IS BAD. ok? got that? find a place, make a space, or get rid of it
Last DON'T TRY TO BE PERFECT, TRY TO BE BETTER THAN TODAY.
Today, I can see my floors, I don't see boxes or bags and I can get a glass of water without having to wash one first. It is that simple, now take your pill and start cleaning your counter.
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