Sky, what an indictment of our medical system your attorney's remark is! As for boundaries, I understand what you mean. So often, things that are happening outside of me greatly impact how I feel about me. Recently, someone quoted something from The Four Agreements to me -- that anything that anyone says or does is always about them, and never about me. I try to hang onto to that idea.

This is an interesting discussion, and I am glad that Dr. Clay is here.