Why not sit them down, like adults, and tell them that you realize that for SOME reason, unbeknownst to you, you irritate them. You don't do it intentionally, and from what they tell you, the things you've done are quite menial and yet they seem to REALLY irritate the daylights out of them! You'd like to know why they get so upset with you!! You might point out some of THEIR little idiosyncrasies that drive YOU NUTS, yet you've politely NEVER said one word about them due to trying to keep peace in the household.

So with that being said, you'd just like to know what in #$#% is their problem!

What do you think? LOL Hugs, Lee